The most painful goodbyes are the ones never said and never explained. Sometimes, people just grow apart. No matter how hard you try, you cannot be the kind of friend that everyone needs. There are some that believe you must communicate every day or you’re not friends. Why? Is it insecurity? I have friends that I may not speak to for a week, a month; yet they never question the friendship. Is that because they have confidence in our relationship? I guess the reasons don’t matter. You just have to be you. Some will love you the way you are and others will wish you were different.
Should you change to accommodate others’ needs? What would the consequences be? How long can you fake it and what would be the point? I honestly can’t do it anymore. I’ve come to realize that no matter how hard I try, I will never be enough for some. I just have to be me, what others want is irrelevant.